I wrote this poem after the 2017 Sonoma fires that took down so many dwellings like our beautiful Cinque Terre in Glen Ellen which was utterly destroyed. Anyway, I am very gratified to know that neighbors up there discovered that poem and honored their shinto temple which burned down by posting it on the burned remains. It was lovely to meet neighbors over a poem and an honor to see it posted at their property to commemorate their loss. See photo that follows poem.
NOTE: aparagraha is a sanskrit word expressing non-possessiveness, non-grasping or non-greediness. it is the opposite of the desire for possessions.
Aparagraha
shiva came through this place smoke signals foretold
Destroyer wiper of slates
Destroyer, you hit your mark smeared your body with our ashes
crumbled our city of material dreams, security illusions.
that which you have reduced to settled piles disintegrates my grasp of worldly form
with one fierce sweep you’ve left me clinging my fist clenching
nothing but material ash
oh shiva, open my eyes sealed by beholding the “Plan”
my hands wail, they pound futile rage, but all that is left is suffocating ash, a strangle of fear.
run! shiva has swept through here. run for your life. run until you collapse in the horror stilled by the dissolution and stand in it, melting like ice in fire
stand in the loss, in the center of it all, in the calm eye of the hurricane release my false grip
travel through shiva’s eyes where destruction offers a path, that if taken shows the soul beyond the pointless grasp, false security
aparagraha
shiva, destroyer cut the cords to my grasp of that which is not my soul
leave only the cinders of what never belonged to me force my hand open to lay on my heart embrace eternal heart beat
let what has been taken blow away in the winds
leaving me standing with palms open on shiva’s purified ground.
furnace curling my skin blanket of heat… is it despair anguish or grief?
i try on different masks to face you
mop the floor brush my teeth the mask of busy-ness works the best
yet your heavy arms load me like a wet cloth
no time to collapse under your weight just enough time to get in the dog walk for the day only time enough to slog on to my next duty, the obligation awaiting
what is your name, i call out as i drive to my next errand no time for tea? you ask…to sit and reminisce no time, i answer, to inquire why you left, why i’m the one here
which mask can cover this which cover can protect me from sitting so close to this campfire’s heat
i look for anyone to be at my side to have someone next to me at this ritual fire blistering my skin melting my mask but then you fade like a specter, a whisp of smoke
you blend into the scenery you are here but hardly seen
calling my name and threatening my to-do list as i drag on to the next thing in my hollow day
I love a statement I found attributed to Saint Francis of Assisi: “I wish to be known all over Europe for my humility.” Throughout my time as a writer and musician, I’ve tried to harbor a similar inclination, a sort of quiet pride in what I’ve done, but I am also well aware that, as far back as 1959, author Norman Mailer espoused, when it came to calling attention to one’s own work, what is a more efficacious attitude. He published Advertisements for Myself—and set the tone for a future we are all a part of now. So here’s Bill’s Blog.
This is the story of my 2-month stay in Costa Rica a few years ago. It wasn’t my first trip. I had visited the year before with my partner, William Solis, who is from Costa Rica. But this particular year I wanted to learn Spanish. My initial plan was to take an immersion course in Mexico. However, William said that if I was going to immerse myself in a Spanish family it might as well be his. They don’t speak any English so I would be forced to speak Spanish and I could get to know them better. I told him that when I returned I would know more about him and his family than he did and so it has proven to be true. William joined me for the last 10 days. This is my journal plus emails I wrote to family and friends and a few comments from my current perspective…six years later. I drew a picture every day using pencil, pen, colored pencil, water colors, and acrylics. I wrote in my journal almost every day. I took photographs.